Is it wrong to bonk???

cuntcunt · #1 04-03-2008, 03:24 PM

Is it wrong to bonk FLs,FB or visit pros if already married? I do have the urge to go and bonk some pussies whenever i past by GL and seeing those babes in very sexy and skimpy outfits.

Can bros here give me your kind opinions on this issue? Or have anyone been bonking although married already.

strikeer · #2 05-03-2008, 12:03 AM

Well personally think tat when u are still in honey moon period sure u wun think of other gals maybe jus steal a glance at some pretty gals lahz.

Like mi married for sometime liao sure go bonk other gals lor. but mainly i would go for commerical sex lor cos no attachment mahz.

Let me ask u a qn if u everydae eat sharkfin eat for 4yrs long would nt get tired of it?

So sure wanna eat other stuff wat. chicken rice oso u wld sae nice lor. same goes for our sex partner mah. everydae the same no matter wat pattern u try 4-5yrs later sure sian liao lahz. guys will always be guys lahz. cos we want something different mahz. but i recommend tat if wanna eat must clean mouth lor. better go for commerical sex. i used to had a FB but one fine dae knn she realli gave her feelings to mi and threaten to expose our relationship to my wife. scare liao so no longer interested in finding a FB onli going for commerical.

But go for commerical dun get any strings attached lor. Later like the uncle CPF less than 3yrs gone liao. My 2cents worth.....

nuclearkid · #3 05-03-2008, 08:02 AM

Morally, its never correct to mess about behind your spouse's back but if you really feel compelled to do so, pay for it. There's never a free fuck in the world no matter how you look at it: You either pay by installments or pay up front. The latter is the safer choice.

acedia · #4 05-03-2008, 08:10 AM

Er of course it is wrong to do so ... morally .. But then like bros mentioned, some people like us just cant resist trying new dishes ...

topcook1 · #5 05-03-2008, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by cuntcunt

Is it wrong to bonk FLs,FB or visit pros if already married? I do have the urge to go and bonk some pussies whenever i past by GL and seeing those babes in very sexy and skimpy outfits.

Can bros here give me your kind opinions on this issue? Or have anyone been bonking although married already.

I had been married for 7 years... For the first four years I was very loyal to my OCs. However cracks started to appear after my first child was born. Quarrel and arguments almost everyday which leads to communication breakdown. Our sex life slows down eventually.From there onwards I started to go for FLs and HC for sex. Morally is very wrong but I feel that going for FLs can sustain your marriage coz of guiltless.This is just my little point of view.

overconsumption · #6 05-03-2008, 08:57 AM

Agree with topcook1 ... sometimes we need to release through somebody else rather than OC especially if married very long liao ... like this sexually we are still sextisfied ...

shoutcast · #7 05-03-2008, 10:45 AM

you come sbf what sort of answer you want ? of cos its not wrong to bonk

delix02 · #8 05-03-2008, 10:58 AM

Hi Bro Topcook, share the same sentiment as yours... bcos of the guilt, I tends to give in to her, hence less quarrels. Why guys have such kind of psychology, damn!

acedia · #9 05-03-2008, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by shoutcast

you come sbf what sort of answer you want ? of cos its not wrong to bonk

Bro I think it is 'wrong' but it is necessary in some relationhsip to keep it alive ....

aczeta76 · #10 05-03-2008, 11:23 AM

I think there is no right or wrong if u look at it rationally. It may be morally wrong but are we saints to start with?

I have seen couples who have been married more 30-40 years call it quits be'coz they have each found new love. Does it mean that they were wrong to have gotten together in the 1st place.

Marriage is not an absolution. It is a conscious decision we make during a particular point in our lives based on what we have experienced and whom we have met

If information was incomplete during that time and you missed your one true (some say many) soulmate (s)... it is then right or wrong to pursue happiness.

Bonking FLs or ONS or FB, we all have our weak moments...Fiery Love/Lust gives way overtime to responsibilities and Kum Cheng...

I dun know about all of you but I am the type who views KC quite high. Bodily satisfaction may lure me once in a while but my heart lies with the one whom I can sleep peacefully next to in life (For better or worse)

MyMy · #11 05-03-2008, 12:04 PM

We live in a real world, there is no right or wrong. I and my gf has been together for a long time and we intend to get marry this year and problems start to surface about relatives issue, we are happy together and always enjoy each other's company and we have a very exciting sex life, never fail to try new ways to satisfy each other, but when we are faced with our problems, naturally we have sex lesser. That's when I search for sex elsewhere, with FL or ONS, that's to made myself feel good and in a way to escape from the reality once in a while, morally is wrong but if I let the problem bother me and the fustration is there, we will have more disagreements.

So morally wrong, but it help solve some problems or maybe give us temp relieve and an escape from reality, it helps to let me live longer, I think.

Life is short, sex life is even shorter. It may ends long b4 before we die.

colins · #12 05-03-2008, 12:05 PM

I guess there is also a difference in whether you tried commercial sex before your marriage or after your marriage. If you tried commercial sex before, the likelihood of returning is pretty high.

I've never visit even ktv during marriage, the first was 2 years after my separation. Now more or less tried most of it, though the last was a good 9 months ago and I had no urge to go back.

Like the bros said, a longer time into marriage definitely open up certain urge to try something else, which I agree after seeing my other friends who have the same urges.

cuntcunt · #13 05-03-2008, 01:48 PM

Thanks to all bros out there who gave your valuable views. So i guess its up to each individual to look into this. As for me, maybe i will try a few more times before i will call it quits...

Thanks BROTHERS!!!

#14 05-03-2008, 02:59 PM

Bro Colins , you mean you are single now and the last time you cheong or something is like 9 months back, sorry if I misunderstood your comments?

If so, you can tahan meh .....

nightfall · #15 05-03-2008, 03:26 PM

I strongly agree with MYMY. Because we have our own problem at home or at work, its not so romantic anymore. It help to get off the urge and concentrate on the other stuffs. Morally its wrong, but as one siad, " If you want, drink the milk outside, don't bring the cow home" At the end of the day, home is where our real love is.

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Originally Posted by MyMy

We live in a real world, there is no right or wrong. I and my gf has been together for a long time and we intend to get marry this year and problems start to surface about relatives issue, we are happy together and always enjoy each other's company and we have a very exciting sex life, never fail to try new ways to satisfy each other, but when we are faced with our problems, naturally we have sex lesser. That's when I search for sex elsewhere, with FL or ONS, that's to made myself feel good and in a way to escape from the reality once in a while, morally is wrong but if I let the problem bother me and the fustration is there, we will have more disagreements.

So morally wrong, but it help solve some problems or maybe give us temp relieve and an escape from reality, it helps to let me live longer, I think.

Life is short, sex life is even shorter. It may ends long b4 before we die.