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Originally Posted by Penguin23
I think you need to look at your options logically. If you're a malay guy in SG without much money for commercial sex but stuck with a damn high sex drive then your best option will be to seek out lonely Indon maids. There are many of them in SG and for many of the younger ones, virtually any Malay guy here is a huge upgrade over the Indon guys they are used to seeing back home. Most Indon ladies are actually very approachable and for them there is little downside in getting to know a local.
The other option that is (unfortunately) closed for now, is to find a gf (of sorts) in Batam. Again it is a question of relative advantage. Virtually any Singaporean Malay man is viewed positively as a prospective partner, whereas over here trying to land yourself a local Minah pussy will require you to compete with (too many) others. Ditto chasing a Chinese or Indian pussy, even tougher since you have less common ground.
Not meant to insult in any way. I understand the difficult predicament of the Singaporean Malay man. To give you an analogy - your situation is the same as a fat Indo Chinese girl seeking an eligible Indo Chinese guy. Literally an ice cube chance in hell.
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That's right, but how do you get maids in the first place? 2 options, online apps or cold approach them on sundays. Cold approach is basically not very good in SG, sure you hear stories that it works sometimes but in SG there's just no culture of talking to strangers. Girls here are suspicious of strangers who talk to them unlike in the US where they'll happily chat you up if you're interesting enough. And most guys here don't have the skills to cold open women and talk to them in a way for the women to be interested. You can't get better at something by not doing it, and we just don't talk to strangers in SG. You hear stories from girls of guys just coming up to them and asking for number straight without any conversation, that's just creepy. So cold approach is not a good option for most guys because most guys don't have the skills because SG is not a good place to practice cold approach skills.
That leaves online apps. It's true that maids are definitely easier (the low hanging fruits), but they are by no means easy. Once they are online they become any regular chick. Online apps in SG are still a sausage fest where there are way more guys than girls. Even guys who are doing reasonably well (for eg me) will not pass up easy pussy if it's good looking enough (I banged a maid 2 months ago). Maids used to be much easier 2-3 years ago, now I barely get them anymore. TS also said he gets no matches even from fat girls, I'm guessing from maids too. I think as online game gets tougher, guys who didn't go for them in the past are forced to go for them. As covid drags on, more guys will flock to online apps and competition will just become more stiff, even for the low hanging fruits like maids and fat girls. You'll need to step up your game and improve your profile, i.e. watch the vids I posted above.
Online is getting harder but still the most accessible form of game in SG. There are 3 ways of getting girls: online, cold approach or social circle. Cold approach as I said above is not good in SG, plus bars and clubs are still closed. Social circle is good, but if you're no longer in school or you don't have a job that lets you know a lot of chicks then you obviously don't have a social circle to fish from. And SG is a small place, it's hard to bang multiple girls without them knowing if you got them from social circle. That leaves online, which is getting harder because it's the most accessible but still doable. Most guys can't be bothered to go to the gym, work out, improve their fashion and take good pics, so if you do those you'll still stand out.