Hi all,
I have been a regular female reader at SB without actually registering myself. Most of the time I would just use my guy friend's nick and log in to view all threads. I must say that it has been an enjoyable experience for me. I didnt dare register and post anything as I was afraid that my friend would know who am I even though we are very open about stuff like this.
Well, to start off, I am married with 2 kids. I have been with my husband for about 5 years, 3 of it married. I am 27 this year and my hubby is 32.
We both have regular sex, at least we make an effort to. We will do it at least twice a week if possible. We will do it mostly at home. I am always the more daring one, I would suggest to do it at some car parks at some ulu industrial estate at night or I suggested to go 81 Lavender for our previous rounds. I am very loud during sex and I hate having to control myself when we are doing it as the kids are sleeping with us. Thanks to some recommendations from some brothers here, we managed to release ourselves in some transit hotels.
Well, the problem I have now is that I have put on quite alot of weight during my pregnancies. I now weigh approximately 20kg more than before and I was about 48 kg last time. I had people not recognising me due to me putting on weight and it's not a good feeling. I am not blessed with good genes that allows me to retain my figure like some young mothers nowadays.
My husband says he does not mind, in fact, he hopes that I will remain like that so no other guys will be interested in me. However, this weight gain has caused me to be very embarrassed during sex. For example, I used to love being on top as it turned me on also when I knew that he was appreciating my body but now I simply hate it because I feel that the fats would really really turn him off even though he says it ok. I now love doggy only, the one where I would put my legs between his legs and my upper body is fully down on the bed. In this way, he will not see the fats so much and I can still enjoy. I hate missionary as when he looks down, I feel that he will see my fats.
I was very turned on last week when we did it in the living room and we both sat up together and faced each other and started rocking our bodies. But my belly was in the way and I started to hear the 'piak piak' sounds and it started to turn me off. So we ended up again, the me kneeling with upper body down style.
All in all, I am simply conscious of my fats.
Can the brothers here please advise. If your wife has a strong appetite for sex but is fat,
will you be turned off? How to make it more exciting and more fun for us? I am open to ideas but please don't ask me to slim down as it's not easy
I have been there and is finally able to be comfortable enough to be what I am. Anyway, I would love to do something to make it more exciting. We used to do it at least twice a day when we were dating and I feel that our current sex life is still pretty healthy, considering the fact that we have 2 kids. I am just so conscious of my fats which dis-allows me to enjoy throughly. Is it all just in my head? Please advise.
We will be going to Bangkok, just us with no kids, and I would like to really enjoy this trip with tons of sex but I'm afraid that my body will affect us. Btw, can we bring a vibrator on board? Thanks for your time taken and if you find me being paranoid or boring, at least appreciate me for helping you fill up 5mins of your day,ya?
