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Re: Batam Info Thread

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Reading these posts made me jumping on my chair!
Careful,dont fall off...

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It's really uncommon for those girls in booking joints to play 3some, or attempting anything different from standard coupling between a man and a girl. They are rather "basic", if I may say.
This i must agree,it is truly uncommon for them to play 3some. Took me quite a while for me to coax 2 girls for 3some which i have been planning for a while. And believe me,it didnt turn out too well for the 1st time. Most booking joint girls are better on a one on one and they are more comfortable at it too.

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I always think that you need to treat the girl as a Princess if you want to be King. This includes the risk to treat a girl as a Princess and being treated as sh*it, but that's unavoidable in this business.
Depending on individual.My hope was to be treated like a King so I dont like princesses or plan to treat any girl like one. I look for OWE therefore i believe i treat my girl more of a queen (with respect). And a Queen is above all except of course,the King himself,hehehe...

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She and the other also told me about some bad experiences they have often with customers, people who treat them roughly and unkindly, including two Koreans who booked them once, brought them near Sakupang, and finally left them there without even paying their taxi to go back to New Berry.
Now,these is one of the major problem in this trade. The girls got treated badly,they bent their anger and frustration on the next customers of a particular country,or a customer got treated badly,they treat the next girl badly (or worse) with even more demands..the cycle will just goes on and on. Using some common sense to think,where is everyone ultimately going to end from there?

Imagine if the girls has that mentality, "either we treat others badly or be treated the same" when they were 1st being "treated" badly by their customer...you can probably guess the outcome of their next customer/s or the one after.

My solution : Stop this vicious cycle starting from me and myself.

"DO NOT do unto what YOU DON’T LIKE others do unto you."

I believe in Karma. I also believe i will reap what i sowed.

Note : I am not saying we should treat the girl/s so well that we entirely spoiled them. There should be a limit too,it is afterall a transaction.One needs to strike a balance.

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"We do our best to give good service and some customers leave no tip"
See, there are two sides of the coin.
Since you talk about 2 side of the coin.

I shall illustrate some past travelling experience. Imagine this,I go to China,the girls in their massage shop gives me services like "ants up the tree" and "hooking up the Moon from the sea bed". I go to Thailand,they give some fantastic soapy massage. And then to Malaysia,where they offer some of the best services. All of a sudden i come to Batam but my mentality is still at China,Thailand and Malaysia. And naturally i will surely be "EXPECTING" something close to those kind of services that i got from those places.

My own expectation begin to stick to one of those places over time. But when i did not get what i am expected to have in those places,it is not considered a good service therefore may get frustrated becos i EXPECTED the same or something similar. Another example,i brought 2 guys to Batam. Guy A only cheong in Sillypore and Malaysia,guy B cheong all over Asia and some part of other contingent. Result : Guy A was able to enjoy Batam better than guy B.

These were my perspectives after some analysis.
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