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coolguy007 17-08-2013 02:50 PM

Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
I am looking for a young bro who can help seduce my wife.. we haven't had penetrated sex as she has a fear and as soon as I try to insert she gets paranoid. Quite possibly Im not experienced (hehe) with virgins so this cud be the problem..

I have asked her a couple of times if she is ok for Yoni massage and she seems fine..

Wondering if any guy could help in this situation discreetly? Suggestions? Meetups with possible fun if u think you could get her fear away...

DO_YOU_BJ 17-08-2013 03:33 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
If this is a serious thread, then reply me. If it isn't, don't bother replying.
Does she tighten up & tries her best to not be penetrated by you?
Does her face get very tensed up when she knows ur gonna penetrate her very shortly or soon?
U see more fear in her eyes than pleasure?
From my sexperience wif women, more often than not, the prob is not u.
The prob is they've been affected by some history that they r trying to forget n prolly will take a lot of patience from u if u ever want to hear it from their mouth.
Everything they r or do right up till penetration is very normal, like any other girl?
If so, seduction is not the prob, the prob is she has a dark history she's trying to forget but it will always haunt where when all conditions reminds of of that incident.

CumExplorer 17-08-2013 03:58 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
I suggest the ts to get more senior and experienced guys to help loosen your wife during the sex if you are serious here. non-experienced young guy may get things worse :p

if you just want play play and fun here, get youngee to play with your wife:p Good lucky in your adventures here ;)

Hardstick15by5 17-08-2013 04:40 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Get her high on alcohol, fondle her nipples, get her in the mood.

then go down on her and lick her pussy until she hits orgasm, several times.

Assure her that there would not be any form of any penetration.... Not even if she begs for it while you give her a good licking..

Continue this a few times, she'd be begging for you to penetrate her soon.

coolguy007 17-08-2013 05:25 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Thanks for all the advise guys.. Quite insightful :)

coolguy007 17-08-2013 05:26 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by CumExplorer (Post 9529326)
I suggest the ts to get more senior and experienced guys to help loosen your wife during the sex if you are serious here. non-experienced young guy may get things worse :p

if you just want play play and fun here, get youngee to play with your wife:p Good lucky in your adventures here ;)

How well experienced? In years you mean bro?

coolguy007 17-08-2013 05:27 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Etcetera (Post 9529186)
Try using a vibrator that's not so thick on her first...

This seems to be a good idea!

dgsk 17-08-2013 05:39 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
You should heed the advice of bro Do_You_BJ, couldn't have said it better.

coolguy007 17-08-2013 05:56 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 9529216)
If this is a serious thread, then reply me. If it isn't, don't bother replying.
Does she tighten up & tries her best to not be penetrated by you?
Does her face get very tensed up when she knows ur gonna penetrate her very shortly or soon?
U see more fear in her eyes than pleasure?
From my sexperience wif women, more often than not, the prob is not u.
The prob is they've been affected by some history that they r trying to forget n prolly will take a lot of patience from u if u ever want to hear it from their mouth.
Everything they r or do right up till penetration is very normal, like any other girl?
If so, seduction is not the prob, the prob is she has a dark history she's trying to forget but it will always haunt where when all conditions reminds of of that incident.

Yes i agree with u bro.. How can u help?

juciferhabits 17-08-2013 06:02 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Hi,

It looks like she has "peer pressure of pain". Make her talk to a woman who lost her virginity recently. You may put up an ad in online classified sites and ask for a girl's help.

Given chance, we all men will convince to bonk her for the favor. And yes, be worried that if you involve a man, there is chance of getting accused of "rape". Lol

She is bit naive. Get her some virgin porns. Take her to a sexual counselor/ doctor and see, if everything fails.

For your own betterment, don't involve a man.

Big Sexy 17-08-2013 06:18 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
mate, i dont understand.
why do u want someone to seduce her?:confused:

Quote:

Originally Posted by coolguy007 (Post 9528880)
I am looking for a young bro who can help seduce my wife.. we haven't had penetrated sex as she has a fear and as soon as I try to insert she gets paranoid. Quite possibly Im not experienced (hehe) with virgins so this cud be the problem..


Lardboy 17-08-2013 06:22 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Maybe he mean someone to help advise him to seduce her.
Not for the guy to physically seduce her...

DO_YOU_BJ 17-08-2013 06:24 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by coolguy007 (Post 9530009)
Yes i agree with u bro.. How can u help?

Believe it or not, from my sexperience, these poor gals got their innocence taken away from them against their WILL!
They may hv not been penetrated but the event or eventS hv been so traumatic to them, it builds a wall around them during these supposed times of PLEASURE.
No licking, fingering or foreplay can help these.
Since u mentioned this is ur wife, them u hv to play counselor n SLOWLY & PATIENTLY emotionally/mentally bring her to trust u & help her bring down that wall.
Then, & only then, will it be pleasurable for her & u.
So ur job now is to bring her victimised mindset to that of a normal woman who's gonna make love to her hubby.
Takes time n patience but once achieved, her love for u will even be deeper than that or any normal gal.
All the best;)

coolguy007 17-08-2013 06:24 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Lardboy (Post 9530177)
Maybe he mean someone to help advise him to seduce her.
Not for the guy to physically seduce her...

Yes correct. I want assistance maybe with yoni massage or any other technique which can get rid of the "stiffness" down there for her. Im not much experienced hence asking experienced bros.

Action 17-08-2013 06:39 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
You prepare to pay any rewards?

DO_YOU_BJ 17-08-2013 06:54 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dgsk (Post 9529927)
You should heed the advice of bro Do_You_BJ, couldn't have said it better.

Tks bro.

This has happened to me on 3 different occasions wif 3 different gals. 2 were non local, the last one was just last year is Local
Symptoms r all similar
They can all participate all kinds of foreplay till the point of penetration. Their legs will stiffen up, preventing u from maneuvering in to position, their eyes will not show acceptance of u but instead, FEAR.
These r signs to me that something happened to them before thus this is their defensive mechanism kicking in, also, not knowing how to react cos that person they see, is U.
From my noob analysis on this, it's a battle of will when ur above them. They dunno how to react & their subconscious mind kicks in & it's a normal reaction to them already.
Not all will be readily willing to open up to u & tell them their deep dark past but then, u can try. If u can't, then do it another way since she isn't willing to divulge the cause to u.

When above her, u must be very calm, supportive & patient. Note, this may even result from a steam to limb situation, so be mentally prepared for it.
Tell her to keep her eyes on u, remind her to remind herself who r u, n who u r to her.
Keep communicating wif her, never loosing eye contact. Never hv eyes or looks of a predator, but that of a kind loving hubby or BF that's gonna make love to her.
Slowly rub ur dick along her pussy lining, guide her hand to ur dick, n tell her to slide it in for u when she's ready. U will encounter times that her legs will stiffen up so much but remind her, it's u, so relax....... This is the only way. It takes time n lotsa patience like I said, but it will eventually pay off.

Do not do this occasionally, but do this several times a day over a period of time till her mind is REPROGRAMMED by u, then it will all busy rabbits shagging really soon.
Best to take a holiday together or book a hotel room & shag for a few days.
It's fixable bro, not to worry

dgsk 17-08-2013 07:23 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
I'll just add that you should also use a lot of lube to "smoothen the path" the 1st few times.

coolguy007 17-08-2013 11:19 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 9530389)
Tks bro.

This has happened to me on 3 different occasions wif 3 different gals. 2 were non local, the last one was just last year is Local
Symptoms r all similar
They can all participate all kinds of foreplay till the point of penetration. Their legs will stiffen up, preventing u from maneuvering in to position, their eyes will not show acceptance of u but instead, FEAR.
These r signs to me that something happened to them before thus this is their defensive mechanism kicking in, also, not knowing how to react cos that person they see, is U.
From my noob analysis on this, it's a battle of will when ur above them. They dunno how to react & their subconscious mind kicks in & it's a normal reaction to them already.
Not all will be readily willing to open up to u & tell them their deep dark past but then, u can try. If u can't, then do it another way since she isn't willing to divulge the cause to u.

When above her, u must be very calm, supportive & patient. Note, this may even result from a steam to limb situation, so be mentally prepared for it.
Tell her to keep her eyes on u, remind her to remind herself who r u, n who u r to her.
Keep communicating wif her, never loosing eye contact. Never hv eyes or looks of a predator, but that of a kind loving hubby or BF that's gonna make love to her.
Slowly rub ur dick along her pussy lining, guide her hand to ur dick, n tell her to slide it in for u when she's ready. U will encounter times that her legs will stiffen up so much but remind her, it's u, so relax....... This is the only way. It takes time n lotsa patience like I said, but it will eventually pay off.

Do not do this occasionally, but do this several times a day over a period of time till her mind is REPROGRAMMED by u, then it will all busy rabbits shagging really soon.
Best to take a holiday together or book a hotel room & shag for a few days.
It's fixable bro, not to worry

Thanks for the wonderful advice bro....really appreciate :)

coolguy007 17-08-2013 11:20 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Action (Post 9530317)
You prepare to pay any rewards?

Haha no im just asking for mutual help...

tcrecruit 17-08-2013 11:26 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
TS u really serious???

My current FB has same issues.. i was surprised when i heard it from her. she was married 5 yrs and she remained a virgin. she went thru' all kinds of therapies and hubby bought toys and so on.. didn't work... i was pleasantly surprised that i was the one who popped her cherry... :-) if interested to discuss more .. PM me.. cheers... try harder..

coolguy007 17-08-2013 11:35 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by tcrecruit (Post 9531685)
TS u really serious???

My current FB has same issues.. i was surprised when i heard it from her. she was married 5 yrs and she remained a virgin. she went thru' all kinds of therapies and hubby bought toys and so on.. didn't work... i was pleasantly surprised that i was the one who popped her cherry... :-) if interested to discuss more .. PM me.. cheers... try harder..

Tcrecruit. Thanks. Have sent u a PM

coolguy007 18-08-2013 12:18 AM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Thanks bros.. Overwhelmed with the responses! Please PM for anything private. Cheers!!!!:D

Stickup 18-08-2013 09:59 AM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Young and good looking may not be the answer.
Suggest that you should spend more time building trust over this issue.
Though she may have bad experience or phobia, but since you're the chosen one she believes she could trust upon, then that is where you should start from.

Openly discuss and seduce her be patience and romantic with your aporoach
Hope this work for you and enjoy.

coolguy007 18-08-2013 11:18 AM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Any more bros interested or have suggestions?

swingingcplsg 18-08-2013 11:42 AM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
bro it need chemistry and comfortable to click with the people you would like to have sex to enjoy. Just chat with someone and meet if your wife is comfortable, she will feels relax and enjoy whatever he may do to her. Cheer!!!!

coolguy007 18-08-2013 11:52 AM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by swingingcplsg (Post 9533772)
bro it need chemistry and comfortable to click with the people you would like to have sex to enjoy. Just chat with someone and meet if your wife is comfortable, she will feels relax and enjoy whatever he may do to her. Cheer!!!!

Hmm yea .. Ideally looking for bros in thier mid or late 20' .. Same as us.
Havent found any genuine contacts of anyone who can be a friend and help/meet ..

absolutvodkasg 18-08-2013 01:02 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
bro normally after discussed with your wife, you needs to take care of her comfort level to enter into something like this. And ensure all this to be carried out thru a thorough discussion with lots of chat and meet up with all party involve so both of you can really enjoy a good sex base on mutual satisfaction and enjoyment.

You had to ask yourself or your wife, what is the purpose of having this toughts before engaging in such activities. This is my opinion to share.

joncheong 18-08-2013 01:10 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
if i remember correctly, there is actually a law that can charge a guy who seduces someone's wife.....but i doubt that is practised in reality haha

coolguy007 18-08-2013 01:17 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
I agree bro and im not looking for someone to take her virginity but help in any yoni massage or similar sensual therapy.

Thanks..

Quote:

Originally Posted by abugga (Post 9534092)
pardon my crudeness, but I feel that you as her husband should be the one to help her through this ordeal, I think she's having a hard time herself putting you through this.

So try not to involve a 3rd party in this, if you manage to break this through with her, she trusts you a hell lot (this itself is an understatement) to let you have her body. (in this case)

If a 3rd party is the one that succeeds in doing so, it may just spell emotional disaster for you. This is a case of psychological issues after all, the person who "saves" her will be the one she carries in her soul.


Optimus_Prime 18-08-2013 01:20 PM

Re: Anyone can seduce my wife?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 9530389)
This has happened to me on 3 different occasions wif 3 different gals. 2 were non local, the last one was just last year is Local
Symptoms r all similar
They can all participate all kinds of foreplay till the point of penetration. Their legs will stiffen up, preventing u from maneuvering in to position, their eyes will not show acceptance of u but instead, FEAR.
These r signs to me that something happened to them before thus this is their defensive mechanism kicking in, also, not knowing how to react cos that person they see, is U..

Bro BJ, just curious all the 3 situations that you mentioned it happened, you were trying to penetrate her in missionary ?

Quote:

Originally Posted by coolguy007 (Post 9534290)
I agree bro and im not looking for someone to take her virginity but help in any yoni massage or similar sensual therapy.Thanks..

Bro, follow the advise below. It works.
Quote:

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 9530389)
When above her, u must be very calm, supportive & patient. Note, this may even result from a steam to limb situation, so be mentally prepared for it.
Tell her to keep her eyes on u, remind her to remind herself who r u, n who u r to her.
Keep communicating wif her, never loosing eye contact. Never hv eyes or looks of a predator, but that of a kind loving hubby or BF that's gonna make love to her.
Slowly rub ur dick along her pussy lining, guide her hand to ur dick, n tell her to slide it in for u when she's ready. U will encounter times that her legs will stiffen up so much but remind her, it's u, so relax....... This is the only way. It takes time n lotsa patience like I said, but it will eventually pay off.



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